Hubby pursuing goals hurting family am I being unfair?

married people with children need jobs and they can chase their dreams after 5pm. You need to tell your husband to get out of the studio playing and get his a** a job. Out of the thousand of people out there trying to "make it", maybe 100 do. He should have thought about that before he got married and before ya'll had a baby. He could have went to the studio and lived with his momma and them. You seem like a successful woman. Stop stressing yourself with this foolishness. If he does not want to be a MAN, because having a does not make you a man, and step up and provide for his family, you need to separate until he comes to your door with at least five recent pay stubs and some money for bills. Until then, keep climbing the ladder and taking care of your baby, and go get your pedicures without worrying about this craziness.